How to talk to your child about 13 Reasons Why

A message from the Ottawa Catholic School Board                                     May 1, 2017

Dear parents of intermediate and secondary students, You may have heard of a Netflix series called 13 Reasons Why, which is based on a young adult novel that depicts events leading to death by suicide of a young fictional character. While the series may not pose risks for most youth, it is believed that it has the potential for harm for youth who may be struggling with a mental health problem and/or suicidal ideation. This series includes graphic content related to suicide, glamorization of suicidal behaviour, and negative portrayals of helpers (including guidance counselors) which may discourage or prevent youth from seeking help. This type of information can lead to misconceptions and misinformation about suicide, and possibly to the glorification of suicide and contagion. Awareness of this series will allow you as a Parent or Guardian to have a conversation with your youth about the content and their reactions and feelings. The attached handout from Elizabeth Paquette, the OCSB's Chief Psychologist, provides tips to help parents talk to their children about the series and its subject matter. The handout may also be viewed online at this link. If you have any questions or have individual concerns about your youth related to mental health, please feel free to talk to an Administrator or Guidance Counselor at your child’s school.